Q: So me and my boyfriend are in a long distance relationship and I want to buy him a sex toy that will please him. I don't want anything too expensive and I definitely don't want a blow up doll, lol. So overall, what is the best (and cheapest) sex toy for a man?
A: One of the less expensive but very popular sex toys for men are pocket vaginas (commonly known as “fleshlights”). This is a tool he can use to masturbate with that feels similar to a vagina. They also make ones that are more similar to the feel of a mouth.
You can find these just about anywhere online, but I’ve provided a link to some websites selling “Sex Toys for Men.” The only toys I wouldn’t recommend are penis pumps, which are dangerous and don’t increase penis size as advertised.
Answers provided by Dr. Ross Avilla
Dr. Ross Avilla has been teaching Human Sexuality since 2013 and has a PhD in psychology from UC Davis. Dr. Avilla is not a clinician and all information and advice offered on this website is for educational purposes only.