Q: Can you give advice to someone who is still a virgin and is trying to please her partner without penetration
A: There are many ways to please someone sexually without having penetrative sex. The most common are manual and oral sexual techniques (handjobs and blowjobs). Someone can also use sex toys. For example, if a woman wants to give her boyfriend the “feeling” of having penetrative sex, she can place a pocket-vagina (more commonly known as a “pocket pussy”) between her legs. That way, the man can penetrate it and have the exact same sensation as if he is having vaginal sex with her. At the same time, he can use his fingers to stimulate her clitoris, so that she can have a good time too! If you’d like some tips on how to have some really hot, non-penetrative sex, check out the following links.
Answers provided by Dr. Ross Avilla
Dr. Ross Avilla has been teaching Human Sexuality since 2013 and has a PhD in psychology from UC Davis. Dr. Avilla is not a clinician and all information and advice offered on this website is for educational purposes only.